Attention economy
Why Social Media Makes Reality Feel Fake
Highlight reels distort baseline expectations for bodies, success, and conflict.
Feeds show peaks: vacations, wins, angles, filters. Your backstage—laundry, bills, doubts—never competes fairly.
Conflict online is performative. Outrage clips lack context; you conclude the world is ending nightly.
Beauty standards warp with beauty filters becoming normal. Faces without filters look 'wrong' to overexposed eyes.
Ground in local reality: touch grass literally, volunteer locally, meet neighbors, measure your life by your values not theirs.
Curate follows like a garden—weed monthly.
Teens need adult conversation about filters, not only bans.
Reality-feels-artificial (matrix-awareness) overlaps philosophically.
